As a guy, even if you have all the 6 sixes as you put it (the only one I am missing is the car, but I don't need it), you still don't get matches on Tinder. And even if you do run the gauntlet and get lucky enough to get a date once in a few months, the girl usually rejects you after the first date. The reason? "No spark". Which is quite ridiculous, as how do you know there is a spark? As an introvert, for me the first dates are always the hardest, as I need to be comfortable with the person first in order to open up. However, you can't do that, if it's basically 1 and done. This is especially incredibly hard for guys, as girls can get another date off the dating apps straight away. So the problem is not just getting the date, but also what happens after the date. With the unbalanced dating market, girls often don't take the chance to actually get to know the guy.